Altered 69
The 69 position is awkward, and I honestly don’t even know why we do it anymore. There are very few women out there who will actually get off during 69. You’re face-deep in your boyfriend’s junk, trying to concentrate on a blowjob while also trying to focus on your own pleasure. It’s hard, causes us to gag, and it’s kind of exhausting. For a woman who doesn’t orgasm easily, it’s almost impossible to get off this way. Instead of having her on top of you, lie astride of each other. It will take the pressure off of her jaw and keep your penis at a comfortable angle. With less head bobbing, there can be a lot more orgasming.
Lifted Missionary
Missionary is the unsung hero that never gets enough credit. If done properly, it also happens to be a killer position for a g-spot orgasm. The trick is to elevate her hips. Your lady’s g-spot is located inside the vagina, right behind the pubic bone. If you can get your penis to hook under there, she will be coming in no time. Place one or two pillows under her derriere to help tilt her pelvis toward the ceiling. This way, your penis can enter and glide upward. On top of that, she can grind her clitoris into your pelvis, giving her that extra boost to get to orgasm.
Lotus
This position might take the cake for sexiness. The lotus is ideal for women who have trouble orgasming because of the ability to grind against your penis, hands free. Sit up and have your girlfriend climb on top of you so you’re facing each other. Save this one for when you have time to really enjoy yourself, not a closet quickie. She’ll appreciate that she can move at her own pace, allowing her to figure out what works for her body. Since going full cardio will only exhaust her (and you), moving in a controlled way can help her peak.
Cowgirl
Cowgirl sucks for us if we’re doing too much bouncing up and down. If you can keep it slow and rhythmic, that’s the sweet spot. It actually takes a lot of time to perfect cowgirl to the point of being able to orgasm. It takes patience and some much-needed selfishness on her part. Encourage her to find her rhythm and let her control the pace. Bonus: Try adding a small vibrator like this.
Sit to Standing
The female orgasm takes a lot of internal focus, so you need to let her lie back and focus on herself. For this one, stand next to the bed and enter her while she’s on her back. Have her wrap her legs around you, touching her feet together. In this position, either one of you can access the clitoris. Add a pillow under her butt if you need to make up for a height difference (or to borrow some of the extra g-spot stimulation you got from lifted missionary).
Reverse Cowgirl
Reverse cowgirl looks sexy and gives your girlfriend access to her clitoris without worrying about you staring at her, since, instead of having her climb on cowgirl, you’ll just ask her to sit backwards. It seems complicated, but it actually isn’t. It’s a killer position for your girlfriend to stimulate herself because no one’s body is in the way of her lady parts.