So animalistic!
I have been blessed with two assets that I know many women reading this website have also been blessed with:
I have a high sex drive, and my bottom is bigger than that of the average bear.
Don’t worry, this isn’t going to be a post about how having a big butt is awesome — because we already know it is.
Butts are the bomb dot com, and it’s pretty hard to find anyone who’d disagree with that.
I mean, you can buy butt padding for pete’s sake.
However, there are still some things that women with big butts have a hard time with, and, it’s a tragedy to admit this, having sex in the doggy style sex position can be challenging, particularly if his penis is on the smaller side.
Thankfully, there are all sorts of ways you can still have the doggy style sex you crave without banishing the booty of which you are so proud.
I love a good sex position hack, don’t you?
Here are 5 hacks for how to do the doggy style sex position when you have a big butt:
1. Assume the position.
You don’t need to be on all fours to have good doggy style sex.
In fact, if you have a fuller bottom, being in an all fours sex position might make things more difficult for you.
You want to be in a position where your butt cheeks are already slightly parted, making it easier for your partner to access your vaginal opening from behind.
In order to do this, you might want to try adjusting your own position before you give up on this sex position altogether.
Try lowering your forearms to the bed (or sofa, I don’t know your life) this makes things a heck of a lot easier to handle.
2. Pillows are a girl’s best friend.
If you find that altering your own position didn’t give you the level of pleasure you were looking for, this is where pillows can be absolutely crucial.
Tuck one or two underneath your knees.
This serves two functions.
The first, is that it takes the pressure off your knees, back, and arms, enabling you to enjoy sex more without trying to support the weight of that big old behind.
It also serves to help improve his access for penis in vagina intercourse.
Did we mention this extreme angle can also stimulate the clit like crazy?
Because it can.
3. Stand up!
That’s right, you don’t need to be supporting your own weight at all!
Depending on how your heights line up (and even then again if there are problems, you can always use pillows) you can bend face down on the bend, with your legs slightly apart for better doggy style sex.
In this position, the bed works with you guys, acting as a sort of bounce back.
Instead of having to work against your behind, he will be working with it, and you’ll be doing virtually nothing at all: which is pretty stellar in its own right.
4. Get involved
If you aren’t the kind of woman to sit back and take it, you’re in luck.
Your big bottom can actually be an asset (quasi-pun not intended) that can help you give as good as you’re getting when it comes to doggy style sex.
Instead of using a buoyant surface like a bed, why bend over a table, or a windowsill?
In this position use that powerful rump! rotate your hips, pop them, gyrate.
You big bottom isn’t just made up of adipose tissue. If you have a big behind chances are you’ve already got powerful glutes too.
Experiment with figuring out how best to use them to keep his penis in place and keep you both satisfied.
5. Learn to love yourself.
I know, so easy right?
But I’m serious about this.
As anyone with a body knows, it isn’t to go around loving yourself every single day of the week.
We have good days and bad days and learning to love yourself is a process and a half!
But, if you can work on changing your relationship with your body, like, embracing your big butt, you might find that it isn’t actually a problem at all.
I used to avoid positions like cowgirl because I was worried about what my partners would think of my floppy belly.
But guess what? Cowgirl feels great, and if I’m having sex with someone, then the chances are they want to see me naked!
If they love looking at my naked body, why shouldn’t I?